2021.12.05 14:48 Pizope Wait the odd
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2021.12.05 14:48 gooodkush Saw this on another sub, reminded me of this wonderful game
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2021.12.05 14:48 chad_dolphin What Reddit post made you say “damn that’s interesting”?
2021.12.05 14:48 mazzucac My wife slept in today and texted me well I was at church
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2021.12.05 14:48 CalebCZD_ [PS4] H: 7 Stalkers Melees W: Best all Junk offers
2021.12.05 14:48 AutoNewspaperAdmin [NZ] - Covid 19 coronavirus: Thousands of students skip NCEA exams after months of lockdown | NZ Herald
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2021.12.05 14:48 pattieburger My muskturtle has (mostly) been in this position for 2 days, he only goes out for air. Should I be worried?
2021.12.05 14:48 whyamIonly5fttall I’ve been building up my portfolio for portrait photography lately :) I want to do it professionally in the future
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2021.12.05 14:48 caughtupinafake My partner [26M] and I [27F] are struggling to find a balance in our individual needs, and I'm struggling not to build resentment
So, there will be a lot of details here that might seem irrelevant but I do think they build the whole picture, so bear with me.
I have a phenomenal relationship, we genuinely love to be around each other, our sex life is great, and I'm able to be honest with him about virtually everything I'm feeling (we talked about this problem last night and he honestly heard me, I'm just worried about not seeing his side enough). However, life has kind of thrown us in a bit of a rut.
When we first met, I was still a law student but in my final year, and his job had very little time requirements, so for the first four months we were spending probably about 70% of our time together despite being a small distance apart. Once I graduated, we moved fairly quickly and moved back to my hometown together because we had a free place to live while we job hunted. For three or so months, we were both unemployed and inseparable, spent all of our time together somewhat out of necessity because we were very poor.
I've grown up wealthy, with pretty much a silver spoon my entire life, but as an adult I've existed on very little money due to being in school. While I have been given every advantage, I think I'm pretty responsible with money, don't really go on trips or spend frivolously, which has made it to where I've always been comfortable. Early on in our relationship, my boyfriend was honest about a significant credit card debt issue. When he told me, I don't think I registered what it actually looked like in practice but once we moved, it became clear that it would change how I did things. Pretty soon after moving, his car broke down and there was no money to be able to fix it, so he's been using mine. He's desperate to get out of the red with his debt, and I totally understand and I've been picking up small expenses like dinners and gas. But, it's been hard. We can't go out to eat, go to the movies, get drinks, really anything because he's struggling and I don't want to put any pressure on him.
Before, when we were both unemployed, it wasn't really on my mind how we couldn't do anything because our company was always so solid. We would find little things to do like walks, wine nights, and starting new shows - we were always engaged with each other. However, he got employed before me and his schedule is brutal. He's out of the house from 5-5 5 days a week, unable to even look at his phone due to security issues. Meanwhile, while I will likely start my new job at the beginning of the year, I am alone all day with nothing really to do, and no car to even go anywhere. I eat shitty food, watch shitty tv, and I'm very lonely. It's also the first time in 3 years where I haven't been in a rigorous academic setting, and I'm feeling the loss of having somewhere to put my brain.
So, when he comes home, I want to be engaged with him and have quality time. We can't do anything because of money, but that's fine - I just want to have some kind of stimulation beyond looking at our phones because that's ALL I've done all day. Unfortunately, where I've been alone all day, he is never alone. His life is go to work, come home to me and I can only imagine how overwhelming that is. I want to make sure he has time for himself, so on one of his days off, I go out with my friends so that he can game in privacy with his. It's been fine until recently when I've been spending all this time alone and then feeling like I'm not getting any quality time with my partner during the times I do have him. However, he is getting absolutely no alone time besides one night a week so he's feeling the opposite of what I'm feeling.
The money has added an extra level where I feel like this situation is creating resentment. When he was at his lowest, I was doing everything I could to help bring him out of it. I would contribute as much as I could to help him feel more secure, including giving him my car for five days out of the week (which he has been so grateful, please don't think anything bad of this) and I've sacrificed a lot of how I used to live due to his financial situation. The job I'm taking is also in part to aid him in getting out of debt, which I'm more than fine with because I hate seeing him held hostage. But it also doesn't help that a lot of his previous spending was on extravagant trips with ex-girlfriends. I'm grateful he has gotten his shit together, but it's hard not to feel resentment towards his previous life.
Here's where I stand. The rational side of me completely understands that every human needs personal time and I want my man to feel fulfilled individually and through me, but I feel like I'm making a ton of sacrifices to make his life more comfortable and I'm getting annihilated by loneliness, particularly when he comes home and is just locked into his phone, and not wanting to do anything with me. It just feels like my needs and happiness is giving way in order for his to be met, and while I feel like I have given everything to help, he's not even seeing that I'm hitting my lowest. When we talked about it last night, he totally understood where I was coming from and said that he just hadn't realized how I was feeling. But, he also intimated that he is feeling overwhelmed with how little alone time he is getting. I feel like an asshole for saying it, but I just feel it's his turn to sacrifice for me for a little bit?
We both want to figure out a way to balance (I'm going to try to devote more time to my friends, giving him more alone time), do you have any suggestions on how we do that? Or is this one of those things where until I start my job, one of us will just have to grin and bear it for a little bit? How do I ignore this resentment that's been building? We adore each other and this rut is just exactly that, but I want to figure out the best way for us to move forward.
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2021.12.05 14:48 KeegmusiK A "first town"-inspired piece! How many game references can you spot?
2021.12.05 14:48 _Xandir_ Wеrе you, too, a stauпch aпti-vaххеr… as long as Τrumρ was still in officе?
2021.12.05 14:48 Comfortable_Bet_8070 Join the Boruto Hentai Discord Server!
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2021.12.05 14:48 classikman PS5 extended storage question
I’m trying to figure out the best way to extend my PS5s storage without compromising performance.
Would external SSDs be slow? Can I use external and internal at the same time? Can I upgrade my internal 1TB to a 5TB?
Thank you all!
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2021.12.05 14:48 Alternative-Roll-22 Looking for scholars
Good day everyone! Our manager is currently looking for scholars, if you're willing to apply and do the task, here's the link below for our discord 👇
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2021.12.05 14:48 HBMaster101 LF: HA Chimchar w/Thunderpunch FT: HA Gligar
2021.12.05 14:48 Frostinator123 What is the best route for mono white aggro in pioneer? Humans?
It’s got some pretty decent options and I want to try something. [[Benalish Marshal]],[[Dauntless Bodyguard]],[[Thalia, Guardian of Thraben]] seem like useable includes.
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2021.12.05 14:48 Red_Dead_Pretension My homage to my favourite Anime film as a kid - Vampire Hunter D - 638 973 863
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2021.12.05 14:48 Chronomuim_RSA (Mandalorian Spoilers ?
2021.12.05 14:48 maicerots Hope you like it😊 (By me)
2021.12.05 14:48 Common_Echo_9061 More Taliban parading in Kunduz
2021.12.05 14:48 Dumbstupidhuman If personalities had a flavor, what would you taste like?
2021.12.05 14:48 FumingOstrich35 A cute crush
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2021.12.05 14:48 Loxwellious How do I use my bloodline modes weapon spec with a tails z mode on?
as the question states, I like to run doku tengoku and its weapon spec is great, but if I'm the rab tails too I ree Instead, I don't wanna ree, help me.
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2021.12.05 14:48 courser99 Socksfor1 & meme (off camera)
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2021.12.05 14:48 Snow_Milim Resting with Bestie!
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